What happens in the Children's Program?
The Children's Program blends learning and play through developmentally appropriate content and activities. With the care and guidance of highly trained counselors, children get to know one another through fun group activities. Kids are also empowered to express themselves in healthy ways.
Why is it important for children who have an addicted parent to participate?
Learning that your parent's alcoholism or substance abuse is not your fault is very powerful for a child. It allows the child to be a kid again. Research shows a genetic component to addiction, so children who have a family history of the disease are at increased risk of developing substance use and behavioral health problems themselves. Equipping youngsters with healthy living skills is an effective form of prevention.
How does the program help families deepen their healing and connection?
Through artwork, stories, letters to "Addiction" and other ways of communicating, children share with their parents what it's been like for them to live such chaos and uncertainty. This is a very moving and eye-opening experience for kids and adults alike.
What can I say to parents to encourage their participation?
Adults who grew up with addiction in their family can give their children a gift they never received as kids—the opportunity to heal from the pain caused by a parent's alcohol abuse or drug addiction. Through our Children's Program, parents also have the opportunity to break the cycle of substance abuse in their family.
What happens at the conclusion of the program?
Children "graduate" with a better understanding of addiction as well as a better ability to identify and express their feelings. Kids also begin the process of creating self-care strategies for themselves and identifying safe people who can provide support. Counseling staff contact each family to provide continuing care recommendations and encouragement to continue seeking services for their child and the collective health of the family.
Why do you avoid using "addict" or "alcoholic" to describe people who have a substance use disorder?
As a behavioral healthcare organization, Hazelden Betty Ford strives to use person-first language that recognizes the person above and beyond their condition or diagnosis. The labels "addicts" and "alcoholics" can perpetuate stigma and diminish help-seeking. We affirm the right of persons who are talking about their own experiences to self-identify with the terms they prefer.